Crazy Ex-Girlfriend

Initially, you felt a sense of relief after your phone was silent for 3 straight days. Now, you feel a sense of foreboding that Kimber is planning something dramatic as an act of revenge for breaking up with her nearly 3 weeks ago.

You met Kimber through a dating app, swiping right without even reading her profile; you just saw a ridiculously beautiful 20 year old woman and decided to shoot your shot. Had you taken the time to review the red flags, things may have turned out differently. You were surprised and excited when she matched with you and initiated the conversation. She was not interested in wasting any time as she asked you out on a date that same night. Feeling vulnerable and lonely, you enthusiastically accepted.

When you met Kimber at a nearby bar, you thought she was stunning and you still felt shocked that she would match with you on the app. Conversation was light and fun, but you noticed anytime another women even walked in your general direction, Kimber looked as if she was ready to fight them. She was extremely territorial of you, but you brushed it off as first date jitters. You hesitantly accept when she invited you to her house for a nightcap; you worried about moving too fast with someone. That worry came to fruition when she pounced on you the moment you stepped foot in her apartment. The girl was on a mission to ravage you and there wasn't anything you could have done to stop her, not that you wanted to in that moment.

While Kimber's appetite for intimacy was insatiable, you noticed her behavior becoming increasingly erratic over the next month. You couldn't go out in public with her because she tried to fight every woman within 10 feet of you. The last straw was your discovery of what could only be described as a shrine dedicated to you; the back of her closet was covered in candid photos of you, half-melted candles, and handwritten notes of all the ways that she planned to dominate you. She screamed and yelled at you as you left. For the next several weeks Kimber sent you a constant stream of texts ranging from vague threats, love bombing, and an entire gallery of sexually explicit pictures and videos of herself. You never blocked her number, but you also never responded to any of her messages.

In the short amount of time that you've known Kimber, you know that she's not the type to give up. You don't believe that your phone's silence over the past few days means that that she's moved on. You think Kimber is planning something and giving you time to let your guard down. Is it best to continue your non-contact with Kimber or should you gauge her current state of mind with a quick text?